Oriental teachings of Tantra state that masturbation at women who do not end by an explosive orgasm is utterly different from masturbation by men who end up having an orgasm with ejaculation.
This difference lies in the effects each way of self-pleasing has on the person practicing it.
The fundamental difference lies in the fact that the woman possesses an almost infinite/unlimited quantity of Yin (-) essence, as compared to the man's Yang (+) essence contained in the semen.
A woman's organism, after masturbating and not ending up with an explosive orgasm, is refreshed, and the vital elements of its organism are regained and balanced after a month's cycle.
Therefore, a woman who is vital and sensuous gains in vitality and subtle 'nourishment' through her own being, through her inner harmony that is in tune with the lunar energies.
The woman embodies the exalted senses, and therefore narcissism comes natural to a woman.
Self-pleasuring, in a woman's case, without yielding to the explosive orgasm, and discharge of vital fluids, leads to the increase of her Yin essence and helps her gain a better control over her sexual reflexes, which in its turn, will lead to her being able to have prolonged, multiple orgasms while making love with continence.
A woman has at her disposal a series of effective methods for self-pleasuring, without her explosive orgasm and losing her sexual energy. For instance, there are simple rotational movements stimulating the clitoris.
Some women may orgasm by the tender touch of some parts of their bodies, such as the breasts and the YONI. For a woman, her own deep, rhythmical breath or her erotic fantasy may be sufficient for orgasm.
After the biological transmutation of her sexual energy (the Yin essence of a woman has been awakened in her), this energy has to be sublimated in a harmonious manner.
A woman's arousal requires more time, but once aroused she is able to experience several successive orgasms, without the discharge of her sexual energy.
In such moments, the mental attitude is the most important aspect of the phenomenon. Such women who experience multiple orgasms experience also 'waves of beatitude', which make her mind able to embrace the infinite.
A vital and sensual woman reaches states of ecstasy through lovemaking with continence more easily than a man does.
In the following, you will find a graphic illustration of the multiple orgasm of a woman practicing continence, as compared to the process that takes place in the case of a usual orgasm of a man.
The following diagram illustrates the stages leading to an ejaculatory orgasm of a man. In an initial phase of foreplay, the level of excitement grows suddenly, followed by a plateau phase, and then the peak. Ejaculation comes right after orgasm. The following diagram illustrates the stages leading to a non-ejaculatory orgasm of a woman. The excitement grows constantly until it reaches a peak, and then it generates a series of intense, pleasant sensations, like a waterfall, corresponding to multiple orgasms, without the discharge of the sexual energy.
Self-pleasuring (in a woman's case) does not necessarily imply that she must introduce inside her vagina different objects in the shape of a lingam.
Indian ancient treaties recommend the use of certain natural objects (such as some fruits and vegetables) instead of artificial substitutes.
In one of these treaties, we find a reference to a plant, which immersed in hot water increases in volume and, when introduced inside the Yoni, it offers a very pleasant feeling of freshness and finesse.
In ancient China and Japan there were created a series of instruments especially for the purpose of female satisfaction.
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